Last friday i went to the Zumba class,my first zumba workout and i love it, i fall in love with this kind of workout so much fun and its just amazing, by the way this song is also very nice bravo.
i think if i can do zumba dance every day i can loss Weight as well maybe???
If i have free time to do,every day i very very busy ,busy lookafter my son Leo. i call Leo little monkey .
Zumba dance look like latin dance, when i listen Zumba song make me want to move my big body to the rhythm zumba music.
Sunday 27 February 2011
Friday 25 February 2011
10 things guys wish girls knew
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10 things guys wish girls knew - Shocking!
by Jodi Bryson
It's fun to talk about boys. Boys with gorgeous eyes, groovy hair, cute smiles and ripped stomach muscles, Aww, yeah! But what do they say when they talk about you?
In hopes of helping girls better understand the PS2 gender--without reverting to that tired, old "inside a guy's mind" cliche--we surveyed 150 guys about a way worthy topic: you! What do guys wish you knew? We asked dozens of boys, from the oh-so sweet geeks to the campus gods, what exactly do they want you to be down with when it comes to boy-girl relations. The next few pages are full of surprising stuff most of the dudes in our survey agree on and want to share with you. We'll be waiting for you to voice your opinions regarding these boy-isms at www.girlslife.com, so feel free to take notes.
1 Calling you on the phone does not mean what you think it means.
"Please, tell me why a girl thinks calling her equals I want her to be my girlfriend," says Mikey. Blunt, but we like blunt. Mikey is in the majority when it comes to romancing the phone. Nearly every guy we talked to says he feels tons of pressure from girls when it comes to the telephone. "It's like calling a girl means I'm admitting I like her, but that's not what's up," explains Mikey. "It's more like I'm calling because I might like her. I hate calling because the next day the girl acts like she owns me. Or, if she's shy, suddenly she can barely talk to me because she's scared. It's stupid."
Knowledge is power You know you're hung up on the phone if, when a guy calls, you think you have some kind of romantic upper hand. "I'm just calling because you're cute or nice or whatever," says Jordan. "If you treat me like I'm a dog just because I think you're cool enough to dial up, then you're a b-word." In other words, for a guy, it's just a phone call, not a confession of undying love. Hel-lo?
2 You are much prettier without all that makeup.
Judging from our survey, boys can't stand makeup. In fact, it seems they can't complain about it enough. Sure, they all like pretty girls, but they also have a problem with a face that looks full-on painted. And what looks painted to a guy is far less than what you might think.
"Why do girls think they need to have so much crap on their faces?" asks Billy. "Girls at my school wear all this black crap on their eyes, and their lips are, like, thick with brown goop. It's ugly. Do they really think that will get them a guy?"
Don't think we didn't set Billy straight about one thing: Not all girls apply makeup to "get them a guy." Still, it's true that lots of girls get all dolled up so they'll be attractive to the opposite sex. But the makeup thing... It's more fun than anything. Right, girls?
Knowledge is power The hated for cosmetics is no joke. One dude even tided his survey "Rodeo Clowns." Could natural-looking makeup be the best date makeup? If being hot to guys is your goal, remember that. Otherwise, it's your choice if you want to apply enough purple mascara to impair your vision. Go for it.
3 When you act spazzy and giggly, ifs seriously embarrassing.
"What is up with girls hopping up and down when they're happy about something?" asks Pete. "A girl definitely invented the word 'yay!' because no guy I know has ever used it." Are you guilty of doing the Gily Woo-hoo! dance? It's a combo of baby claps and bobbing on your toes while emitting high-pitched squeals of delight. This all in reaction to, say, seeing the slide projector set up upon entering French class.
What's the big deal? "I really do want to know why are girls so excited about normal stuff," says Pete. "Every other thing, it's like, 'Ohmigosh! No way!"'
Knowledge is power Colin, a self-described shy boy, has something interesting to say: "I think girls like attention, and being excited about something makes people look and wonder what she's so happy about." Good theory.
Arnie, a jokester, has a theory of his own: "I think girls are just different. You're raised to let your feelings out, even if they're bad. I've never seen a guy friend cry, but I've seen a chick fall apart because some dude she liked didn't pick her for his volleyball team in phys ed. That's dumb."
We're not here to tell you how to act. Just tuck it in the back of your mind that all the boys we surveyed agree that girls could mellow out a little. Let's have a round of baby-claps for that, please.
4 Gossiping, whispering and writing notes makes y on look beyond shallow.
"Girls are always passing notes around in class, and it's just so friggin' dumb," says Joey. "Or they'll look right at me, then whisper to each other and laugh. Do they want me to think they're talking about me? 'Cause I do. And if it's really true and they are talking about me, then that's just lame."
Rude is the word, actually, Joey. Whispering, especially with the cupped hand at your girl's ear, is just so third grade. And gossip? "When I hear one girl talk trash about another girl, it's like I can't believe it," says Dominick, "like I'm in a bad movie about how mean girls are. If I heard my friends were talking about me like that, I'd transfer schools."
Knowledge is power People talk about other people. That's life. But there is a big difference between gossip and character assassinations. Not to mention, it's bad form to let anyone believe you're saying negative things about him. So, sorry to get all motherly on you, but if you absolutely must exchange information, be cool about the notes and discreet about the whispering. Oh, and do be sure that the "information" isn't going to hurt someone's feelings, OK?
5 Boys worry about what you think of their hair, skin, weight and clothes.
"My best friend is a girl, and the other day she said my hair looks exactly the same every single day," says Luis. "I couldn't believe it because some days my hair is jacked up." For the record, Luis is a cutie with great hair.
A recent nationally televised newsmagazine show had a big story about how men are the new vanity victims, and how they stress on their looks as much or more than women. But, if a guy suffers vanity, he doesn't talk about it--at least, not to girls and not as much as girls.
What we know: Guys totally think about their appearance even if they don't say it out loud. "I bad to ask my mom to take me to the dermatologist because I was breaking out on my cheeks and back," says Jay. "I couldn't stand it."
His friend Robert has a different issue: "Girls like guys with good bodies but, when I try to get six-pack abs, it never works. I just feel like I have a spare tire all the time."
Knowledge is power If you could get a view of Robert, you would tell him what we told him: He's out of his mind--the boy is a total babe! But here he is trippin' on his gut. Moral of the story? Boys have self-image issues, too. Isn't it a relief to know that?
6 PMS is no excuse to he mean.
"I know girls get weird at 'that time of the month,' but I don't get why they have to act like I'm their worst enemy," confides Sean. "Sometimes, my sister acts like she wishes I were dead because I won't give her the remote control, but all that's going on is she's PMSing. Screaming at me and freaking out on me isn't right."
We know what you're thinking: Boys just don't understand what it feels like to wake up with serious cramps and have to get up from that warm bed at 6 a.m. to put on tight jeans over a bloated belly so you can go do fractionals in homeroom. So, yeah, we feel your pain--and we really mean feel it. But that's the point: Boys don't.
Knowledge is power So, you're pained? Look, face it--the hormones that go with menstruating affect moods and, yeah, sometimes make a girl mean as a hungry dog. But barking at a boy because you don't feel well? Just deal the best you can by taking care of yourself. This includes not totally indulging in caffeine, sugar or greasy foods--all three aggravate physical and emotional symptoms. Get plenty of sleep, drink loads of water, and take lots of warm baths--yes, even in the afternoon when you get home from school. Soaking in bubbles while daydreaming is an on-your-period girl's best friend.
We're not saying you should become a menstrual recluse just because you're wearing a maxi-pad. But sometimes maybe it is better to bow out of a social opp if you're really not up to it. What's the point of going to the party if you're not gonna have a good time? Oh, and if you do snap at your boy for no other reason than those nasty hormonal intrusions, a short, simple apology ("Sorry--I was in a bad state of mind yesterday") could go a long way. No lengthy, drawn-out explanations necessary. He'll never fully understand, so don't even try.
7 Talking about your "big" butt is so boring.
"If there's one thing I can't stand, it's when a girl asks me if she looks fat," says Stephen. "For one thing, I don't know if you're fat. For another thing, shut up." Ooh, Stephen is feisty, but a lot of the boys echo his sentiment.
Boys do not want to listen to a girl's insecurities about her body. True, some guys have issues with what a girl weighs, but they all have different tastes when it comes to the feminine physique. Some guys like booties like Jennifer Lopez's. Other guys like their girls thin as a fence post. Who cares? You are what you are, so talking about your body is about as interesting as studying the Dead Sea.
Knowledge is power Whether you're questioning a guy friend for his honest opinion or fishing for a compliment from a guy you like, asking about your body is a no-win situation. You're just putting the guy on the spot. And, guess what--if a boy likes you, he likes you for the way you are right now, this second. A shy boy named Paul says it awesome; "Girls' bodies are an endless mystery to me. I think you're all beautiful." Ah.
8 Tight clothes look uncomfortable, cheap, and sort of desperate and insecure.
"My sister complains that boys always stare at her boobs, but she wears tight shirts that totally show off her boobs," says Chad. "I'm confused."
Chad, nice boy, you should be confused. Fashion is stupid. If MTV execs dressed the world, the official girl wardrobe would be a tireless supply of all-occasion bikini tops, mini skirts and thongs. But the too-much-skin fashions can be, well, bimbo.
"I like the way my last girlfriend dressed," says Miguel. "She wore some stuff that showed off her great athletic body, but it wasn't like all hanging Out. Sometimes she wore baggy pants and just a little of her belly showed. Or sometimes, if she wore those tight jeans girls always wear, she wouldn't have her boobs all out."
In other words, Miguel's ex struck a balance between teen fashion's obsession with skimpiness and some actual good taste. Just a peek of a shoulder exposed in a side-cut shirt can be fabulously glamorous. You can take your best assets and display them gracefully. You have s great, flat belly? Then, if you must share it with the world, wear a midriff paired with a full-length denim skirt. Want to show off those great legs? Go with the mini skirt, but save the midriff fox another day.
Knowledge is power "I think girls gel mixed up because of how people dress on TV," says Matthew. "Showing a lot of skin in super-tight clothes just says to everyone, 'Please look at me!' If you need to wear those kinds of clothes, you're obviously not confident."
If you find Christina Aguilera garb cute, just know that popstars have lots of perks--one of which is wearing costumes. However "street" they look, these duds are designed for performing. If you copy Christina's skin-tillating take on everyday clothes, you give off a very definite vibe that's all about exposure and "look at my bod" exhibitionism. Is that really what you want? Think of it this way: If you overheard a boy say about you, "I want to go out with her because she has great cleavage and I can see part of her butt every day in her short shorts," would you be offended or flattered? Hint: Be offended!
9 Most boys are looking for the right girl.
Daniel puts it so eloquently: "I would love to find a girl who's cool and doesn't act like such a girl." We're not sure what acting like a girl leans, but it could have something to do with much of what's been addressed right here in this article.
Whatever his logic, Daniel is not the only boy looking for a girl to like! Don't believe it? "I'm sick of everyone acting like boys aren't as mature as girls," says D.B. "It's just that we also think about other stuff. If it happens, it happens, but I'm not going to talk to my friends on the phone about girls every day."
D.B.'s friend Raymond has another, um, interesting point: "So many girls at my school are hot, but me and my friends just wait for them to figure out who they want because that's what girls seem to do at my school. It's like they're all spazzed out about finding a boyfriend all the time. We just have to wait and see who they act dumb around because that means she likes you." Wanna slap Ray? Take a number.
Knowledge is power One thing that is abundantly clear is that boys think girls are way too into finding a BF. As Eric says, "Do girls want any guy or the right guy?" Sending signals is good because some boys are shy just as some girls are shy. But check to see if you and your girls are overdoing it. Do you constantly discuss guys? Is who-likes-who the topic du jour, every jour? If so, pull back a bit, at least around the guys. This way they'll be able to see what's really important to you: makeup (kidding!).
10 If you like him, just tell him.
There was one major statement that kept popping up on our surveys: "Girls should not flirt and act like they like me, and then later ignore me." Maybe the flirting thing is to girls what the phone is to boys: You're just flirting to feel him out, and it doesn't have to mean anything heavy. We get that.
But for guys, if you're smiling and being nice to him, well, then you want him for a boyfriend. At least, that's how many of the surveyed boys see it. "There is a big difference between just being cool and flirting," says James. "I can tell if a girl is just talking to me or if she likes me." Maybe. Maybe not.
By that logic, when you want to make friends with a boy, striking up a random convo could be misinterpreted as major flirting. So what is the safe middle ground? "If you like me, just tell me. If you don't, say you're not into me like that," says Ray.
Knowledge is power OK, just telling a guy you like him isn't as easy as it sounds. But all the guys agreed on this one, which means it should work. Courage to be honest? You can do it.
10 things guys wish girls knew - Shocking!
by Jodi Bryson
It's fun to talk about boys. Boys with gorgeous eyes, groovy hair, cute smiles and ripped stomach muscles, Aww, yeah! But what do they say when they talk about you?
In hopes of helping girls better understand the PS2 gender--without reverting to that tired, old "inside a guy's mind" cliche--we surveyed 150 guys about a way worthy topic: you! What do guys wish you knew? We asked dozens of boys, from the oh-so sweet geeks to the campus gods, what exactly do they want you to be down with when it comes to boy-girl relations. The next few pages are full of surprising stuff most of the dudes in our survey agree on and want to share with you. We'll be waiting for you to voice your opinions regarding these boy-isms at www.girlslife.com, so feel free to take notes.
1 Calling you on the phone does not mean what you think it means.
"Please, tell me why a girl thinks calling her equals I want her to be my girlfriend," says Mikey. Blunt, but we like blunt. Mikey is in the majority when it comes to romancing the phone. Nearly every guy we talked to says he feels tons of pressure from girls when it comes to the telephone. "It's like calling a girl means I'm admitting I like her, but that's not what's up," explains Mikey. "It's more like I'm calling because I might like her. I hate calling because the next day the girl acts like she owns me. Or, if she's shy, suddenly she can barely talk to me because she's scared. It's stupid."
Knowledge is power You know you're hung up on the phone if, when a guy calls, you think you have some kind of romantic upper hand. "I'm just calling because you're cute or nice or whatever," says Jordan. "If you treat me like I'm a dog just because I think you're cool enough to dial up, then you're a b-word." In other words, for a guy, it's just a phone call, not a confession of undying love. Hel-lo?
2 You are much prettier without all that makeup.
Judging from our survey, boys can't stand makeup. In fact, it seems they can't complain about it enough. Sure, they all like pretty girls, but they also have a problem with a face that looks full-on painted. And what looks painted to a guy is far less than what you might think.
"Why do girls think they need to have so much crap on their faces?" asks Billy. "Girls at my school wear all this black crap on their eyes, and their lips are, like, thick with brown goop. It's ugly. Do they really think that will get them a guy?"
Don't think we didn't set Billy straight about one thing: Not all girls apply makeup to "get them a guy." Still, it's true that lots of girls get all dolled up so they'll be attractive to the opposite sex. But the makeup thing... It's more fun than anything. Right, girls?
Knowledge is power The hated for cosmetics is no joke. One dude even tided his survey "Rodeo Clowns." Could natural-looking makeup be the best date makeup? If being hot to guys is your goal, remember that. Otherwise, it's your choice if you want to apply enough purple mascara to impair your vision. Go for it.
3 When you act spazzy and giggly, ifs seriously embarrassing.
"What is up with girls hopping up and down when they're happy about something?" asks Pete. "A girl definitely invented the word 'yay!' because no guy I know has ever used it." Are you guilty of doing the Gily Woo-hoo! dance? It's a combo of baby claps and bobbing on your toes while emitting high-pitched squeals of delight. This all in reaction to, say, seeing the slide projector set up upon entering French class.
What's the big deal? "I really do want to know why are girls so excited about normal stuff," says Pete. "Every other thing, it's like, 'Ohmigosh! No way!"'
Knowledge is power Colin, a self-described shy boy, has something interesting to say: "I think girls like attention, and being excited about something makes people look and wonder what she's so happy about." Good theory.
Arnie, a jokester, has a theory of his own: "I think girls are just different. You're raised to let your feelings out, even if they're bad. I've never seen a guy friend cry, but I've seen a chick fall apart because some dude she liked didn't pick her for his volleyball team in phys ed. That's dumb."
We're not here to tell you how to act. Just tuck it in the back of your mind that all the boys we surveyed agree that girls could mellow out a little. Let's have a round of baby-claps for that, please.
4 Gossiping, whispering and writing notes makes y on look beyond shallow.
"Girls are always passing notes around in class, and it's just so friggin' dumb," says Joey. "Or they'll look right at me, then whisper to each other and laugh. Do they want me to think they're talking about me? 'Cause I do. And if it's really true and they are talking about me, then that's just lame."
Rude is the word, actually, Joey. Whispering, especially with the cupped hand at your girl's ear, is just so third grade. And gossip? "When I hear one girl talk trash about another girl, it's like I can't believe it," says Dominick, "like I'm in a bad movie about how mean girls are. If I heard my friends were talking about me like that, I'd transfer schools."
Knowledge is power People talk about other people. That's life. But there is a big difference between gossip and character assassinations. Not to mention, it's bad form to let anyone believe you're saying negative things about him. So, sorry to get all motherly on you, but if you absolutely must exchange information, be cool about the notes and discreet about the whispering. Oh, and do be sure that the "information" isn't going to hurt someone's feelings, OK?
5 Boys worry about what you think of their hair, skin, weight and clothes.
"My best friend is a girl, and the other day she said my hair looks exactly the same every single day," says Luis. "I couldn't believe it because some days my hair is jacked up." For the record, Luis is a cutie with great hair.
A recent nationally televised newsmagazine show had a big story about how men are the new vanity victims, and how they stress on their looks as much or more than women. But, if a guy suffers vanity, he doesn't talk about it--at least, not to girls and not as much as girls.
What we know: Guys totally think about their appearance even if they don't say it out loud. "I bad to ask my mom to take me to the dermatologist because I was breaking out on my cheeks and back," says Jay. "I couldn't stand it."
His friend Robert has a different issue: "Girls like guys with good bodies but, when I try to get six-pack abs, it never works. I just feel like I have a spare tire all the time."
Knowledge is power If you could get a view of Robert, you would tell him what we told him: He's out of his mind--the boy is a total babe! But here he is trippin' on his gut. Moral of the story? Boys have self-image issues, too. Isn't it a relief to know that?
6 PMS is no excuse to he mean.
"I know girls get weird at 'that time of the month,' but I don't get why they have to act like I'm their worst enemy," confides Sean. "Sometimes, my sister acts like she wishes I were dead because I won't give her the remote control, but all that's going on is she's PMSing. Screaming at me and freaking out on me isn't right."
We know what you're thinking: Boys just don't understand what it feels like to wake up with serious cramps and have to get up from that warm bed at 6 a.m. to put on tight jeans over a bloated belly so you can go do fractionals in homeroom. So, yeah, we feel your pain--and we really mean feel it. But that's the point: Boys don't.
Knowledge is power So, you're pained? Look, face it--the hormones that go with menstruating affect moods and, yeah, sometimes make a girl mean as a hungry dog. But barking at a boy because you don't feel well? Just deal the best you can by taking care of yourself. This includes not totally indulging in caffeine, sugar or greasy foods--all three aggravate physical and emotional symptoms. Get plenty of sleep, drink loads of water, and take lots of warm baths--yes, even in the afternoon when you get home from school. Soaking in bubbles while daydreaming is an on-your-period girl's best friend.
We're not saying you should become a menstrual recluse just because you're wearing a maxi-pad. But sometimes maybe it is better to bow out of a social opp if you're really not up to it. What's the point of going to the party if you're not gonna have a good time? Oh, and if you do snap at your boy for no other reason than those nasty hormonal intrusions, a short, simple apology ("Sorry--I was in a bad state of mind yesterday") could go a long way. No lengthy, drawn-out explanations necessary. He'll never fully understand, so don't even try.
7 Talking about your "big" butt is so boring.
"If there's one thing I can't stand, it's when a girl asks me if she looks fat," says Stephen. "For one thing, I don't know if you're fat. For another thing, shut up." Ooh, Stephen is feisty, but a lot of the boys echo his sentiment.
Boys do not want to listen to a girl's insecurities about her body. True, some guys have issues with what a girl weighs, but they all have different tastes when it comes to the feminine physique. Some guys like booties like Jennifer Lopez's. Other guys like their girls thin as a fence post. Who cares? You are what you are, so talking about your body is about as interesting as studying the Dead Sea.
Knowledge is power Whether you're questioning a guy friend for his honest opinion or fishing for a compliment from a guy you like, asking about your body is a no-win situation. You're just putting the guy on the spot. And, guess what--if a boy likes you, he likes you for the way you are right now, this second. A shy boy named Paul says it awesome; "Girls' bodies are an endless mystery to me. I think you're all beautiful." Ah.
8 Tight clothes look uncomfortable, cheap, and sort of desperate and insecure.
"My sister complains that boys always stare at her boobs, but she wears tight shirts that totally show off her boobs," says Chad. "I'm confused."
Chad, nice boy, you should be confused. Fashion is stupid. If MTV execs dressed the world, the official girl wardrobe would be a tireless supply of all-occasion bikini tops, mini skirts and thongs. But the too-much-skin fashions can be, well, bimbo.
"I like the way my last girlfriend dressed," says Miguel. "She wore some stuff that showed off her great athletic body, but it wasn't like all hanging Out. Sometimes she wore baggy pants and just a little of her belly showed. Or sometimes, if she wore those tight jeans girls always wear, she wouldn't have her boobs all out."
In other words, Miguel's ex struck a balance between teen fashion's obsession with skimpiness and some actual good taste. Just a peek of a shoulder exposed in a side-cut shirt can be fabulously glamorous. You can take your best assets and display them gracefully. You have s great, flat belly? Then, if you must share it with the world, wear a midriff paired with a full-length denim skirt. Want to show off those great legs? Go with the mini skirt, but save the midriff fox another day.
Knowledge is power "I think girls gel mixed up because of how people dress on TV," says Matthew. "Showing a lot of skin in super-tight clothes just says to everyone, 'Please look at me!' If you need to wear those kinds of clothes, you're obviously not confident."
If you find Christina Aguilera garb cute, just know that popstars have lots of perks--one of which is wearing costumes. However "street" they look, these duds are designed for performing. If you copy Christina's skin-tillating take on everyday clothes, you give off a very definite vibe that's all about exposure and "look at my bod" exhibitionism. Is that really what you want? Think of it this way: If you overheard a boy say about you, "I want to go out with her because she has great cleavage and I can see part of her butt every day in her short shorts," would you be offended or flattered? Hint: Be offended!
9 Most boys are looking for the right girl.
Daniel puts it so eloquently: "I would love to find a girl who's cool and doesn't act like such a girl." We're not sure what acting like a girl leans, but it could have something to do with much of what's been addressed right here in this article.
Whatever his logic, Daniel is not the only boy looking for a girl to like! Don't believe it? "I'm sick of everyone acting like boys aren't as mature as girls," says D.B. "It's just that we also think about other stuff. If it happens, it happens, but I'm not going to talk to my friends on the phone about girls every day."
D.B.'s friend Raymond has another, um, interesting point: "So many girls at my school are hot, but me and my friends just wait for them to figure out who they want because that's what girls seem to do at my school. It's like they're all spazzed out about finding a boyfriend all the time. We just have to wait and see who they act dumb around because that means she likes you." Wanna slap Ray? Take a number.
Knowledge is power One thing that is abundantly clear is that boys think girls are way too into finding a BF. As Eric says, "Do girls want any guy or the right guy?" Sending signals is good because some boys are shy just as some girls are shy. But check to see if you and your girls are overdoing it. Do you constantly discuss guys? Is who-likes-who the topic du jour, every jour? If so, pull back a bit, at least around the guys. This way they'll be able to see what's really important to you: makeup (kidding!).
10 If you like him, just tell him.
There was one major statement that kept popping up on our surveys: "Girls should not flirt and act like they like me, and then later ignore me." Maybe the flirting thing is to girls what the phone is to boys: You're just flirting to feel him out, and it doesn't have to mean anything heavy. We get that.
But for guys, if you're smiling and being nice to him, well, then you want him for a boyfriend. At least, that's how many of the surveyed boys see it. "There is a big difference between just being cool and flirting," says James. "I can tell if a girl is just talking to me or if she likes me." Maybe. Maybe not.
By that logic, when you want to make friends with a boy, striking up a random convo could be misinterpreted as major flirting. So what is the safe middle ground? "If you like me, just tell me. If you don't, say you're not into me like that," says Ray.
Knowledge is power OK, just telling a guy you like him isn't as easy as it sounds. But all the guys agreed on this one, which means it should work. Courage to be honest? You can do it.
Tuesday 22 February 2011
My lovely son Leo
Last sunday weather very nice don't have rain and mostly sunny. Me and my hubby take my son to play park my son Leo very enjoy he smiled and laughed show the bottom teeth.
Thursday 17 February 2011
fucking perfect
love it this song fuc.... life many people .i want my perfect life dont want Fuc....
SONG Funcking Perfect have Meaning very good or very good Meaning
Made a wrong turn, once or twice
Dug my way out, blood and fire
Bad decisions, that's alright
Welcome to my silly life
Mistreated, misplaced, misunderstood
Miss 'No way, it's all good', it didn't slow me down
Mistaken, always second guessing, underestimated
Look, I'm still around
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than fuckin' perfect
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel like you're nothing
You're fuckin' perfect to me!
You're so mean, when you talk about yourself, you were wrong
Change the voices in your head, make them like you instead
So complicated, look happy, you'll make it!
Filled with so much hatred...such a tired game
It's enough! I've done all I can think of
Chased down all my demons, I've seen you do the same
Oh, pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than fuckin' perfect
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel like you're nothing
You're fuckin' perfect to me
The whole world's scared so I swallow the fear
The only thing I should be drinking is an ice cold beer
So cool in line, and we try try try, but we try too hard and it's a waste of my time
Done looking for the critics, cause they're everywhere
They dont like my jeans, they don't get my hair
Exchange ourselves, and we do it all the time
Why do we do that? Why do I do that?
Why do I do that..?
Yeah, oh, oh baby, pretty baby..!
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than fuckin' perfect
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel
Like you're nothing, you're fucking perfect to me
You're perfect, you're perfect!
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel like you're nothing
You're fuckin' perfect to me...
Dug my way out, blood and fire
Bad decisions, that's alright
Welcome to my silly life
Mistreated, misplaced, misunderstood
Miss 'No way, it's all good', it didn't slow me down
Mistaken, always second guessing, underestimated
Look, I'm still around
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than fuckin' perfect
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel like you're nothing
You're fuckin' perfect to me!
You're so mean, when you talk about yourself, you were wrong
Change the voices in your head, make them like you instead
So complicated, look happy, you'll make it!
Filled with so much hatred...such a tired game
It's enough! I've done all I can think of
Chased down all my demons, I've seen you do the same
Oh, pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than fuckin' perfect
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel like you're nothing
You're fuckin' perfect to me
The whole world's scared so I swallow the fear
The only thing I should be drinking is an ice cold beer
So cool in line, and we try try try, but we try too hard and it's a waste of my time
Done looking for the critics, cause they're everywhere
They dont like my jeans, they don't get my hair
Exchange ourselves, and we do it all the time
Why do we do that? Why do I do that?
Why do I do that..?
Yeah, oh, oh baby, pretty baby..!
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than fuckin' perfect
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel
Like you're nothing, you're fucking perfect to me
You're perfect, you're perfect!
Pretty pretty please, if you ever ever feel like you're nothing
You're fuckin' perfect to me...
Champion
This song i like i think the best song champion.
people learn every thing for the best . i think dont have who wise born the champion.
people learn every thing for the best . i think dont have who wise born the champion.
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people have to fight
some people give it up
They wanna hold you back, tell 'em pee off
whenever they say you can't, take the T off
I remember when they told me I wouldn't be famous
now my dream and reality is simultaneous
and work your own way to the top
if they put you on a pedestal they can take you off
and there's a higher level than the top
you gotta make more, don't do with what you got
yeah, so get it in go sunny
not everybody gets a second chance at getting money
or even getting lucky so you gotta feel
the hunger in your tummy
I'm always pushing myself to the limit
making sure I stay ahead
you made me who I am, from the words you said
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion
some people have to fight
some people give their lives
some people don't believe
I was born a champion
but I was born a champion
but I was born a champion
Imagine you was the one, that couldn't get a look in
couldn't get a booking
couldn't get a push in when you needed a shove
or your buttons they be pushing
so now they tryna shush him
it's only you believing in you
they turn you into a bastard than moment you rude
attitude a little out of tune
but thats how champions move
yeah so go and get it in sunny
not everybody gets a second chance at getting money
or even getting lucky
so you gotta feel the hunger in your tummy
No-one wants to help
I guess you're on your own
build a foundation with the bricks they throw
in a black and white World, True colours show
change if you want, everybody grows
life's like an ill, but try and get a hold
opinions aint fact, take em and let em go
You made me who I am from the words you said
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion (champion)
some people have to fight
some people give their lives
some people don't believe
but I was born a champion
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion (champion)
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion
but I was born a champion
some people wait there turn
some people have to fight
some people give it up
They wanna hold you back, tell 'em pee off
whenever they say you can't, take the T off
I remember when they told me I wouldn't be famous
now my dream and reality is simultaneous
and work your own way to the top
if they put you on a pedestal they can take you off
and there's a higher level than the top
you gotta make more, don't do with what you got
yeah, so get it in go sunny
not everybody gets a second chance at getting money
or even getting lucky so you gotta feel
the hunger in your tummy
I'm always pushing myself to the limit
making sure I stay ahead
you made me who I am, from the words you said
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion
some people have to fight
some people give their lives
some people don't believe
I was born a champion
but I was born a champion
but I was born a champion
Imagine you was the one, that couldn't get a look in
couldn't get a booking
couldn't get a push in when you needed a shove
or your buttons they be pushing
so now they tryna shush him
it's only you believing in you
they turn you into a bastard than moment you rude
attitude a little out of tune
but thats how champions move
yeah so go and get it in sunny
not everybody gets a second chance at getting money
or even getting lucky
so you gotta feel the hunger in your tummy
No-one wants to help
I guess you're on your own
build a foundation with the bricks they throw
in a black and white World, True colours show
change if you want, everybody grows
life's like an ill, but try and get a hold
opinions aint fact, take em and let em go
You made me who I am from the words you said
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion (champion)
some people have to fight
some people give their lives
some people don't believe
but I was born a champion
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion (champion)
Some people have to learn
some people wait there turn
some people but not me
I was born a champion
but I was born a champion
Make You Feel My Love
I like this word
'to make you feel my love '
love song for me on valentine's day
When the rain is blowing in your face
And the whole world is on your case
I could offer you a warm embrace
To make you feel my love
When evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love
I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong
I'd go hungry, I'd go black and blue
I'd go crawling down the avenue
There's nothing that I wouldn't do
To make you feel my love
The storms are raging on the rollin' sea
And on the highway of regret
The winds of change are blowing wild and free
You ain't seen nothing like me yet
I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the earth for you
To make you feel my love
And the whole world is on your case
I could offer you a warm embrace
To make you feel my love
When evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love
I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong
I'd go hungry, I'd go black and blue
I'd go crawling down the avenue
There's nothing that I wouldn't do
To make you feel my love
The storms are raging on the rollin' sea
And on the highway of regret
The winds of change are blowing wild and free
You ain't seen nothing like me yet
I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the earth for you
To make you feel my love
ยามเธอต้องสายลมโหมกระหน่ำ
ยามเธอต้องช้ำกับโลกเบื้องหน้า
ฉันจะมาพร้อมอ้อมกอดอบอุ่น
ให้เธอได้รู้ซึ้งถึงรักที่ฉันมี
ยามค่ำคืนเยื้องย่างข้างเคียงแสงดาว
คราวไม่มีใครเคียงข้างซับน้ำตา
ฉันจะมาเฝ้ากอดกระชับเธอไว้
ให้เธอได้รู้ซึ้งในรักของฉัน
ฉันรู้ว่าเธอยังคิดตัดสินใจ
แต่ฉันก็จะไม่มีวันทำร้ายเธอ
เพราะ….ฉันรู้ดีตั้งแต่แรกเจอ
ว่าเธอคือเจ้าหัวใจฉัน
ฉันยอมโหยหิว ยอมบอบช้ำ
ยอมล้มลุกคลุกคลาน
ฉันจะไม่ปฏิเสธในสิ่งใด
หากมันจะทำให้เธอได้รู้ซึ้งถึงรักที่ฉันมีให้
ลมพายุถั่งโถมบนเกลียวคลื่น
บนถนนแห่งความหมองเศร้า
แม้ทุกอย่างจะผันแปรไปเช่นไร
เธอก็ยังไม่เคยเห็นใครมั่นคงได้อย่างฉัน
ไม่มีสิ่งใดที่ฉันจะละเลย
ฉันจะไปจนสุดโลกหล้า
เพื่อเธอนั้นมีความสุข
เพื่อปลุกให้ฝันของเธอเป็นจริง
เพื่อให้เธอซึ้งถึงสิ่งที่เรียกว่า รัก ในหัวใจฉัน
แปลจากเพลง To Make You Feel My Love แต่งโดย Bob Dylan
Adele she is a fantastic voice
http://www.oknation.net/blog/print.php?id=125538
Tuesday 15 February 2011
my valentine's day
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| rose for love |
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| card valentine's day |
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| my husband and my son Leo 8 months |
Today valentine's day me and my husband went for a dinner at Royal Orchid Thai Restaurant. food very nice i eat more my husband because my husband lookafter my son.
''love you my love thank you for every thing you done for me''
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| my love and me |
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| love love |
Monday 14 February 2011
Doi Ang Khang Chiang Mai Thailand
Thailand is a beautiful country have many the mountain, waterfalls, white sand beaches and other
I would like recommend interesting
Doi Ang Khang.Chiang Mai Thailand
visit the beautiful flowers of Doi Ang Khang.
my cousin been Doi Ang Khang before she said is a very beautiful.
North Eastern Thailand
North Eastern Thailand is better known as Isan - also written as Isaan, Isarn, Issan, or Esarn. There are 19 provinces in Isan, but only a few receive interest from tourists, which is a shame as this is a great part of Thailand to relax, wander in nature and get to know the friendly and welcoming people.
Isan covers an area of 160,000 km? and much of the land is given over the farms and paddy fields as agriculture is the main economic activity. The region of Isan has a strong, rich and individual culture. Examples of this can be found in the folk music, called mor lam, festivals, dress, temple architecture and general way of life.
The main regional dialect is Isan, which is actually much more similar to Lao than central Thai. Unfortunately, because the rainfall is often insufficient for crops to grow properly, Isan is the poorest region of Thailand, and many people leave the province to seek their fortunes in the bustling metropolis of Bangkok.
The average temperature range is from 30.2 ?C to 19.6 degrees C. The highest temperature recorded was a sweltering 43.9 degrees C, whilst the lowest was a freezing -1.4 degrees C. Unlike most of Thailand, rainfall is unpredictable, but it mainly occurs during the rainy season, which takes place from May to October.
The average temperature range is from 30.2 ?C to 19.6 degrees C. The highest temperature recorded was a sweltering 43.9 degrees C, whilst the lowest was a freezing -1.4 degrees C. Unlike most of Thailand, rainfall is unpredictable, but it mainly occurs during the rainy season, which takes place from May to October.
Although completely unique, Isan food has adopted elements of both Thai and Lao cuisines. Sticky rice is served with every meal and the food is much spicier than that of most of Thailand.
Popular dishes include:
som tam - extremely spicy and sour papaya salad
larb - fiery meat salad liberally laced with chilies
gai yang - grilled chicken
moo ping - pork satay sticks
larb - fiery meat salad liberally laced with chilies
gai yang - grilled chicken
moo ping - pork satay sticks
Isan people are famous for their ability to eat whatever happens to be around, and lizards, snakes, frogs and fried insects such as grasshoppers, crickets, silkworms and dung beetles often form a part of their diet.
Both men and women traditionally wear sarongs; women's sarong often have an embroidered border at the hem, whilst those of the men are chequered. Much of Thailand's silk is produced in Isan, and the night markets at many of the small towns and villages are good places to find a bargain.
There is no major airport in Isan, but the State Railway of Thailand has two lines and both connect the region to Bangkok. This is also a good place to enter Laos via the Thanon Mitraphap ("Friendship Highway"), which was built by the United States to supply its military bases in the 1960s and 1970s. The Friendship Bridge - Saphan Mitraphap - forms the border crossing over the Mekong River on the outskirts of Nong Khai to the Laos capital of Vientiane.
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Friday 11 February 2011
14 philosophy of love
14 philosophy of love
ปรัชญาความรัก 14 แบบ
A man overtime falls in love with woman he is attracted to, and a woman overtime become more attracted to the man she loves.
ผู้ชายมักจะตกหลุมรักคนที่เค้าหลงเสน่ห์ และผู้หญิงจะหลงเสน่ห์คนที่เธอตกหลุมรัก
ผู้ชายมักจะตกหลุมรักคนที่เค้าหลงเสน่ห์ และผู้หญิงจะหลงเสน่ห์คนที่เธอตกหลุมรัก
Friendship is love minus sex and plus reason LOVE is friendship but love is friendship plus sex and minus reason.
มิตรภาพคือ ความรักลบด้วยเซ็กซ์ และบวกเอาเหตุผลเพิ่มเข้าไป
ส่วนรักคือ มิตรภาพบวกด้วยเซ็กซ์ และลบเอาเหตุผลออกไป
มิตรภาพคือ ความรักลบด้วยเซ็กซ์ และบวกเอาเหตุผลเพิ่มเข้าไป
ส่วนรักคือ มิตรภาพบวกด้วยเซ็กซ์ และลบเอาเหตุผลออกไป
To love is nothing. To be loved is something.
To love and be loved is everything!!!!
การได้รักเป็นเรื่องขี้ผง
การถูกรักเป็นเรื่องของอะไรบางอย่าง
ส่วนการได้รักและการถูกรักเป็นทุกอย่าง (ว้าว)
To love and be loved is everything!!!!
การได้รักเป็นเรื่องขี้ผง
การถูกรักเป็นเรื่องของอะไรบางอย่าง
ส่วนการได้รักและการถูกรักเป็นทุกอย่าง (ว้าว)
You may only be one person to the world
but you may also be the world to one person
คุณอาจจะเป็นแค่ "คนๆ หนึ่ง" ในโลกใบนี้
แต่คุณอาจจะเป็น "โลกทั้งใบ" ของคนคนหนึ่งก็ได้
but you may also be the world to one person
คุณอาจจะเป็นแค่ "คนๆ หนึ่ง" ในโลกใบนี้
แต่คุณอาจจะเป็น "โลกทั้งใบ" ของคนคนหนึ่งก็ได้
You know when you love someone when you want them to be happy
even if their happiness means that you're not of it.
คุณรู้ว่าคุณรักเค้าก็ต่อเมื่อคุณต้องการให้เค้ามีความสุข
แม้ว่าความสุขนั้นจะหมายถึง
การที่คุณไม่ได้เป็นส่วนหนึ่งของมัน
even if their happiness means that you're not of it.
คุณรู้ว่าคุณรักเค้าก็ต่อเมื่อคุณต้องการให้เค้ามีความสุข
แม้ว่าความสุขนั้นจะหมายถึง
การที่คุณไม่ได้เป็นส่วนหนึ่งของมัน
Love looks not with eyes, but with the mind.
ความรักนั้นเห็นไม่ได้ด้วยตา แต่สัมผัสได้ด้วยใจ
ความรักนั้นเห็นไม่ได้ด้วยตา แต่สัมผัสได้ด้วยใจ
Love is like standing in the wet cement.
The longer you stay, the harder it is to leave.
And you can never go without leaving your shoes behind.
ความรักก็เหมือนปูนเปียกๆ
ยิ่งคุณอยู่นานเท่าไหร่ก็ยิ่งติดหนึบ
จากไปไม่ได้เท่านั้น
และคุณจะไม่มีวันจากมาได้เลย
โดยที่ไม่ได้ทิ้งรองเท้าไว้ข้างหลัง
The longer you stay, the harder it is to leave.
And you can never go without leaving your shoes behind.
ความรักก็เหมือนปูนเปียกๆ
ยิ่งคุณอยู่นานเท่าไหร่ก็ยิ่งติดหนึบ
จากไปไม่ได้เท่านั้น
และคุณจะไม่มีวันจากมาได้เลย
โดยที่ไม่ได้ทิ้งรองเท้าไว้ข้างหลัง
Don't marry a person you can live with,
marry somebody you can't live without.
จงอย่าแต่งงานกับคนที่คุณ "อยู่ด้วยได้"
จงแต่งงานกับคนที่คุณ "ขาดไม่ได้"
marry somebody you can't live without.
จงอย่าแต่งงานกับคนที่คุณ "อยู่ด้วยได้"
จงแต่งงานกับคนที่คุณ "ขาดไม่ได้"
If you love someone tell them don't wait or also
you will lose the chance.
ถ้าคุณรักใคร บอกเค้าซะ อย่ารีรออยู่เลย
ไม่งั้นคุณจะเสียโอกาสนะ..
you will lose the chance.
ถ้าคุณรักใคร บอกเค้าซะ อย่ารีรออยู่เลย
ไม่งั้นคุณจะเสียโอกาสนะ..
It only takes a second to say " I love you"
but it will take a lifetime to show you how much.
ใช้เวลาแค่เพียงชั่ววินาทีในการบอกว่า" ฉันรักเธอ"
แต่ใช้เวลาตลอดชีวิตในการแสดงให้เห็นว่า รักมากเพียงไร?
but it will take a lifetime to show you how much.
ใช้เวลาแค่เพียงชั่ววินาทีในการบอกว่า" ฉันรักเธอ"
แต่ใช้เวลาตลอดชีวิตในการแสดงให้เห็นว่า รักมากเพียงไร?
The essential sadness is to go through life without loving.
But it would be almost equally sad to leave this
world without ever telling those you loved that you love them.
ความเศร้าที่สำคัญคือการใช้ชีวิตโดยปราศจากความรัก
แต่มันคงจะเศร้าพอๆกันที่จะจากโลกนี้ไปโดยไม่ได้บอกคนที่คุณรักว่า
"คุณรักพวกเค้า"
But it would be almost equally sad to leave this
world without ever telling those you loved that you love them.
ความเศร้าที่สำคัญคือการใช้ชีวิตโดยปราศจากความรัก
แต่มันคงจะเศร้าพอๆกันที่จะจากโลกนี้ไปโดยไม่ได้บอกคนที่คุณรักว่า
"คุณรักพวกเค้า"
A man falls in love through his eyes,
a woman through her ears.
ผู้ชายตกหลุมรักทางตา
แต่ผู้หญิงน่ะ ตกหลุมรักทางหู
a woman through her ears.
ผู้ชายตกหลุมรักทางตา
แต่ผู้หญิงน่ะ ตกหลุมรักทางหู
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To hope is to risk pain.
To try is to risk failure,
but risk must be taken,
because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
การที่ได้รักคือการเสี่ยงว่าจะไม่ได้รับความรักเป็นการตอบแทน
การตั้งความหวังคือการเสี่ยงกับความเจ็บปวด
การพยายามคือการเสี่ยงกับความล้มเหลว
แต่ยังไงก็ต้องเสี่ยง
เพราะสิ่งที่อันตรายที่สุดในชีวิตก็คือการไม่เสี่ยงอะไรเลย
To hope is to risk pain.
To try is to risk failure,
but risk must be taken,
because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
การที่ได้รักคือการเสี่ยงว่าจะไม่ได้รับความรักเป็นการตอบแทน
การตั้งความหวังคือการเสี่ยงกับความเจ็บปวด
การพยายามคือการเสี่ยงกับความล้มเหลว
แต่ยังไงก็ต้องเสี่ยง
เพราะสิ่งที่อันตรายที่สุดในชีวิตก็คือการไม่เสี่ยงอะไรเลย
When loving someone.. never regret what you
do. only regret what you didn't do.
เวลารักใคร..อย่าเสียใจในสิ่งที่คุณได้กระทำ
จงเสียใจในสิ่งที่คุณไม่ได้กระทำ…..
do. only regret what you didn't do.
เวลารักใคร..อย่าเสียใจในสิ่งที่คุณได้กระทำ
จงเสียใจในสิ่งที่คุณไม่ได้กระทำ…..
Cupid คิวปิด
คิวปิด
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| cupid |
The Roman god of love and the son of Venus. He is a small, winged boy, blindfolded, carrying bow and arrows. The arrows, once struck the heart, makes the victim fall in love. He is also portrayed as a young man with his beloved Psyche, with Venus or with a small group of winged infants (the Amoretti or Amorini). Some traditions say that he was born from a silver egg. His Greek equivalent is Eros. The name is derived from the Latin cupido, "desire".
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คนทั่วไปรู้จัก คิวปิด ในภาพของเด็กน่ารักที่มีปีก มือถือคันธนูกับลูกศรและมีชื่อเสียงในเรื่องการยิงศรรักปักหัวใจของใครต่อใคร ศรรักของ คิวปิด หมายถึงความปรารถนาและอารมณ์แห่งความรัก คิวปิด จะเล็งลูกศรไปที่พระเจ้าและมนุษย์เพื่อทำให้พระเจ้ากับมนุษย์รักกัน
คิวปิดมักจะมีบทบาทในการเฉลิมฉลองความรัก ในกรีกโบราณ คิวปิด เป็นที่รู้จักกันในชื่อว่า เอโรส ลูกชาย แอฟโพไดท์ เทพธิดาแห่งความรักและความสวยงามแต่สำหรับพวกโรมัน เขาคือ คิวปิด และแม่ของเขาคือ วีนัส
มีเรื่องน่าสนใจพอสมควรเกี่ยวกับ คิวปิด และ ไซคี เจ้าสาวของเขาในเทพนิยายโรมัน ผมขอแนะนำผู้อ่านให้รู้จักคู่รักของ คิวปิด สักนิดนะครับว่าเธอเป็นเทพธิดารูปงามในนิยายกรีกโบราณมีปีกเป็นผีเสื้อ และเพราะความงามนี้เองที่ทำให้ วีนัส อิจฉา นางจึงได้สั่ง คิวปิด ให้ลงโทษว่าที่ลูกสะใภ้เสีย แต่ คิวปิด ตกหลุมรักเธอเกินกว่าที่จะทำตามความต้องการของแม่ ดังนั้น แทนที่จะลงโทษเธอ คิวปิด กลับเอาเธอเป็นภรรยาเสียเลย แต่เนื่องจาก ไซคี มิได้เป็นอมตะ เธอจึงถูกห้ามมิให้มองเขา (ตรงนี้ผมไม่ทร าบเหมือนกันนะครับว่าเป็นไปได้อย่างไรที่ได้เธอเป็นภรรยาแล้วภรรยามองไม่ได้ แต่อย่าไปคิดอะไรมากนะครับ เพราะเทพนิยายฝรั่งก็ไม่แตกต่างอะไรไปจากละครน้ำเน่าบ้านเรา)
หลังจากตกเป็นภรรยาของ คิวปิด แล้ว ไซคี ก็มีความสุขเรื่อยมา (ก็แหงละ) จนกระทั่งพี่สาวของเธอได้รบเร้าให้เธอมอง คิวปิด ทันทีที่เธอมอง คิวปิด คิวปิด ก็ลงโทษเธอด้วยการทิ้งเธอไปทันที พร้อมกันนั้นปราสาทและสวนอันสวยงามของเธอก็ต้องมลายหายไปด้วย หลังจากนั้นไซคี ก็พบว่าตัวเองอยู่ตามลำพังในทุ่งโล่งแห่งหนึ่งซึ่งไม่มีร่องรอยของสิ่งมีชีวิตอื่นๆหรือ คิวปิด ปรากฏให้เห็นเลย
ในขณะที่เธอออกเดินทางค้นหาคนรักของเธอนั้น เธอก็มาถึงวิหารของ วีนัส โดยบังเอิญ เมื่อ วีนัส เทพธิดาแห่งความรักพบว่า ไซคี ยังมีชีวิตอยู่ เธอก็ปราถนาที่จะ ทำลาย ไซคี ด้วยการให้งานที่หนักและอันตรายเพิ่มขึ้นเรื่อยๆ งานสุดท้ายที่ ไซคี ได้รับมิใช่งานขับเครื่องบินชนตึกเวิร์ลเทรดครับ หากแต่เธอได้รับกล่องใบหนึ่งมาและได้ถูกสั่งให้ลงไปยังใต้โลกเพื่อเอา ความงามของ โพรเซอร์พีน ภรรยาของ พลูโต ใส่กล่องใบนี้มา ในระหว่างที่เธอเดินทางอยู่นั้น เธอก็ได้รับคำแนะนำให้รู้จักการหลีกเลี่ยงอันตรายจากอาณาจักรแห่งความตาย นอกจากนั้นแล้ว เธอยังได้ถูกเตือนมิให้เปิดกล่องใบนั้นอีกด้วย แต่เพราะทนไม่ไหวหรือเพราะความอยากรู้อยากเห็นหรืออะไรก็ไม่ทราบ เธอได้เปิดกล่องใบนั้น แต่แทนที่จะพบกับความงาม เธอกลับต้องหลับเป็นตาย
ต่อมา คิวปิด ได้มาพบร่างอันไร้ชีวิตของเธอบนพื้นดิน เขาจึงได้นำเอาอาการหลับเป็นตายออกจากร่างของเธอและนำมันไปเก็บไว้ในกล่อง หลังจากนั้น คิวปิด ก็ได้ให้อภัยเธอเช่นเดียวกับ วีนัส เมื่อเทพเจ้าทั้งหลายเห็นความรักที่เธอมีต่อ คิวปิด จึงได้ตั้งให้เธอเป็นเทพธิดาองค์หนึ่ง
ปัจจุบันนี้รูป คิวปิด แผลงศรเป็นสัญลักษณ์แห่งความรักที่ผู้คนมักนิยมใช้กัน และเมื่อศรรักของ คิวปิด พุ่งโดนหัวใจหนุ่มสาวคนใดในวันวาเลนไทน์ หนุ่มสาวคนนั้นก็จะออกอาการ "สติวปิ้ด" จากศรรักของ คิวปิด ขึ้นมาทันที อาการนี้จะเห็นได้จากการส่งดอกกุหลาบสีแดง ส่งช็อคโกแล็ต การส่งบัตรอวยพรและอื่นๆ อีกครับ
หมายเหตุท้ายบท : "สติวปิ้ด" เป็นภาษาอังกฤษแปลว่า "โง่" ครับ เหมือนคำบางคำที่เราอาจเคยได้ยินว่า "ความรักบางครั้งก็ทำให้คนตาบอด และ มองไม่เห็นข้อบกพร่องของคนที่เรารัก"
คิวปิดมักจะมีบทบาทในการเฉลิมฉลองความรัก ในกรีกโบราณ คิวปิด เป็นที่รู้จักกันในชื่อว่า เอโรส ลูกชาย แอฟโพไดท์ เทพธิดาแห่งความรักและความสวยงามแต่สำหรับพวกโรมัน เขาคือ คิวปิด และแม่ของเขาคือ วีนัส
มีเรื่องน่าสนใจพอสมควรเกี่ยวกับ คิวปิด และ ไซคี เจ้าสาวของเขาในเทพนิยายโรมัน ผมขอแนะนำผู้อ่านให้รู้จักคู่รักของ คิวปิด สักนิดนะครับว่าเธอเป็นเทพธิดารูปงามในนิยายกรีกโบราณมีปีกเป็นผีเสื้อ และเพราะความงามนี้เองที่ทำให้ วีนัส อิจฉา นางจึงได้สั่ง คิวปิด ให้ลงโทษว่าที่ลูกสะใภ้เสีย แต่ คิวปิด ตกหลุมรักเธอเกินกว่าที่จะทำตามความต้องการของแม่ ดังนั้น แทนที่จะลงโทษเธอ คิวปิด กลับเอาเธอเป็นภรรยาเสียเลย แต่เนื่องจาก ไซคี มิได้เป็นอมตะ เธอจึงถูกห้ามมิให้มองเขา (ตรงนี้ผมไม่ทร าบเหมือนกันนะครับว่าเป็นไปได้อย่างไรที่ได้เธอเป็นภรรยาแล้วภรรยามองไม่ได้ แต่อย่าไปคิดอะไรมากนะครับ เพราะเทพนิยายฝรั่งก็ไม่แตกต่างอะไรไปจากละครน้ำเน่าบ้านเรา)
หลังจากตกเป็นภรรยาของ คิวปิด แล้ว ไซคี ก็มีความสุขเรื่อยมา (ก็แหงละ) จนกระทั่งพี่สาวของเธอได้รบเร้าให้เธอมอง คิวปิด ทันทีที่เธอมอง คิวปิด คิวปิด ก็ลงโทษเธอด้วยการทิ้งเธอไปทันที พร้อมกันนั้นปราสาทและสวนอันสวยงามของเธอก็ต้องมลายหายไปด้วย หลังจากนั้นไซคี ก็พบว่าตัวเองอยู่ตามลำพังในทุ่งโล่งแห่งหนึ่งซึ่งไม่มีร่องรอยของสิ่งมีชีวิตอื่นๆหรือ คิวปิด ปรากฏให้เห็นเลย
ในขณะที่เธอออกเดินทางค้นหาคนรักของเธอนั้น เธอก็มาถึงวิหารของ วีนัส โดยบังเอิญ เมื่อ วีนัส เทพธิดาแห่งความรักพบว่า ไซคี ยังมีชีวิตอยู่ เธอก็ปราถนาที่จะ ทำลาย ไซคี ด้วยการให้งานที่หนักและอันตรายเพิ่มขึ้นเรื่อยๆ งานสุดท้ายที่ ไซคี ได้รับมิใช่งานขับเครื่องบินชนตึกเวิร์ลเทรดครับ หากแต่เธอได้รับกล่องใบหนึ่งมาและได้ถูกสั่งให้ลงไปยังใต้โลกเพื่อเอา ความงามของ โพรเซอร์พีน ภรรยาของ พลูโต ใส่กล่องใบนี้มา ในระหว่างที่เธอเดินทางอยู่นั้น เธอก็ได้รับคำแนะนำให้รู้จักการหลีกเลี่ยงอันตรายจากอาณาจักรแห่งความตาย นอกจากนั้นแล้ว เธอยังได้ถูกเตือนมิให้เปิดกล่องใบนั้นอีกด้วย แต่เพราะทนไม่ไหวหรือเพราะความอยากรู้อยากเห็นหรืออะไรก็ไม่ทราบ เธอได้เปิดกล่องใบนั้น แต่แทนที่จะพบกับความงาม เธอกลับต้องหลับเป็นตาย
ต่อมา คิวปิด ได้มาพบร่างอันไร้ชีวิตของเธอบนพื้นดิน เขาจึงได้นำเอาอาการหลับเป็นตายออกจากร่างของเธอและนำมันไปเก็บไว้ในกล่อง หลังจากนั้น คิวปิด ก็ได้ให้อภัยเธอเช่นเดียวกับ วีนัส เมื่อเทพเจ้าทั้งหลายเห็นความรักที่เธอมีต่อ คิวปิด จึงได้ตั้งให้เธอเป็นเทพธิดาองค์หนึ่ง
ปัจจุบันนี้รูป คิวปิด แผลงศรเป็นสัญลักษณ์แห่งความรักที่ผู้คนมักนิยมใช้กัน และเมื่อศรรักของ คิวปิด พุ่งโดนหัวใจหนุ่มสาวคนใดในวันวาเลนไทน์ หนุ่มสาวคนนั้นก็จะออกอาการ "สติวปิ้ด" จากศรรักของ คิวปิด ขึ้นมาทันที อาการนี้จะเห็นได้จากการส่งดอกกุหลาบสีแดง ส่งช็อคโกแล็ต การส่งบัตรอวยพรและอื่นๆ อีกครับ
หมายเหตุท้ายบท : "สติวปิ้ด" เป็นภาษาอังกฤษแปลว่า "โง่" ครับ เหมือนคำบางคำที่เราอาจเคยได้ยินว่า "ความรักบางครั้งก็ทำให้คนตาบอด และ มองไม่เห็นข้อบกพร่องของคนที่เรารัก"
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วันวาเลนไทน์ นั้นมีมาตั้งแต่สมัยจักรวรรดิโรมัน ในกรุงโรมสมัยก่อนนั้น วันที่ 14 กุมภาพันธ์ จะเป็นวันเฉลิมฉลองของจูโน่ ซึ่งเป็นราชินีแห่งเหล่าเทพและเทพธิดาของโรมัน ชาวโรมันรู้จักเธอในนามของเทพธิดาแห่ง อิสตรีและการแต่งงาน และในวันถัดมาคือวันที่ 15 กุมภาพันธ์ ก็จะเป็นวันเริ่มต้นงานเลี้ยงของ Lupercalia การดำเนินชีวิตของเด็กหนุ่มและเด็กสาวในสมัยนั้นจะถูกแยกจากกันอย่างเด็ดขาด แต่อย่างไรก็ตาม ยังมีประเพณี อย่างนึง ซึ่งเด็กหนุ่มสาวยัง สืบทอดต่อกันมา คือ คืนก่อนวันเฉลิมฉลอง Lupercalia นั้นชื่อของเด็กสาวทุกคนจะถูกเขียนลงในเศษกระดาษเล็ก ๆ และจะใส่เอาไว้ในเหยือก เด็กหนุ่มแต่ละคนจะดึงชื่อของเด็กสาวออกจากเหยือก แล้วหลังจากนั้นก็จะจับคู่กันในงานเฉลิมฉลอง บางครั้งการจับคู่นี้ ท้ายที่สุดก็จะจบลงด้วยการ ที่เด็กหนุ่มและเด็กสาวทั้งสองนั้นได้ตกหลุมรักกันและแต่งงานกันในที่สุด
ภายใต้การปกครองของจักรพรรดิคลอดิอุสที่สอง (Claudius II) นั้น กรุงโรมได้เกิดสงครามหลายครั้ง และคลอดิอุสเองก็ประสบกับปัญหาในการที่จะหาทหารจำนวนมากมายมหาศาลมาเข้าร่วมในศึกสงคราม และเขาเชื่อว่าเหตุผลสำคัญก็คือ ผู้ชายโรมันหลายคนไม่ต้องการจากครอบครัวและคนอันเป็นที่รักไป และด้วยเหตุผลนี้เอง ทำให้จักรพรรดิคลอดิอุสประกาศให้ยกเลิกงานแต่งงานและงานหมั้นทั้งหมดในกรุงโรม ถึงกระนั้นก็ตาม ยังมีนักบุญผู้ใจดีคนหนึ่งซึ่งชื่อว่า ท่านนักบุญ " วาเลนไทน์ " ท่านเป็นพระที่กรุงโรมในสมัยของจักรพรรดิคลอดิอุสที่สองท่าน นักบุญ วาเลนไทน์ และนักบุญ มาริอุส ได้จัดตั้งกลุ่มองค์กรเล็กๆ เพื่อช่วยเหลือชาวคริสเตียนที่ตกทุกข์ได้ยากเหล่านี้ และได้จัดให้มีการแต่งงานของคู่รักอย่างลับๆด้วย
และจากการกระทำเหล่านี้เอง ทำให้ นักบุญ วาเลนไทน์ ถูกจับและถูกตัดสินประหารโดยการตัดศรีษะ ในวันที่ 14 กุมภาพันธ์ ประมาณปีคริสต์ศักราชที่ 270 ซึ่งถือเป็นวันที่ท่านได้ทนทุกข์ทรมานและเสียสละเพื่อเพื่อนมนุษย์
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ภายใต้การปกครองของจักรพรรดิคลอดิอุสที่สอง (Claudius II) นั้น กรุงโรมได้เกิดสงครามหลายครั้ง และคลอดิอุสเองก็ประสบกับปัญหาในการที่จะหาทหารจำนวนมากมายมหาศาลมาเข้าร่วมในศึกสงคราม และเขาเชื่อว่าเหตุผลสำคัญก็คือ ผู้ชายโรมันหลายคนไม่ต้องการจากครอบครัวและคนอันเป็นที่รักไป และด้วยเหตุผลนี้เอง ทำให้จักรพรรดิคลอดิอุสประกาศให้ยกเลิกงานแต่งงานและงานหมั้นทั้งหมดในกรุงโรม ถึงกระนั้นก็ตาม ยังมีนักบุญผู้ใจดีคนหนึ่งซึ่งชื่อว่า ท่านนักบุญ " วาเลนไทน์ " ท่านเป็นพระที่กรุงโรมในสมัยของจักรพรรดิคลอดิอุสที่สองท่าน นักบุญ วาเลนไทน์ และนักบุญ มาริอุส ได้จัดตั้งกลุ่มองค์กรเล็กๆ เพื่อช่วยเหลือชาวคริสเตียนที่ตกทุกข์ได้ยากเหล่านี้ และได้จัดให้มีการแต่งงานของคู่รักอย่างลับๆด้วย
และจากการกระทำเหล่านี้เอง ทำให้ นักบุญ วาเลนไทน์ ถูกจับและถูกตัดสินประหารโดยการตัดศรีษะ ในวันที่ 14 กุมภาพันธ์ ประมาณปีคริสต์ศักราชที่ 270 ซึ่งถือเป็นวันที่ท่านได้ทนทุกข์ทรมานและเสียสละเพื่อเพื่อนมนุษย์
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Monday 7 February 2011
Valentine's Day History's Romantics Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
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Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley |
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| Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley 1797 - 1851 |
Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
The only child of the famous feminist Mary Wollstonecraft and the philosopher and novelist William Godwin, both influential voices in Romantic-Era England, Mary Wollstonecraft Godwin fell in love with the poet Percy Bysshe Shelley when she was only 16; he was 21 and unhappily married. In the summer of 1816, the couple was living with Shelley's friend and fellow poet, the dashing and scandalous Lord Byron, in Byron's villa in Switzerland when Mary came up with the idea for what would become her masterpiece — and one of the most famous novels in history — Frankenstein (1818). After Shelley's wife committed suicide, he and Mary were married, but public hostility to the match forced them to move to Italy. When Mary was only 24, Percy Shelley was caught in a storm while at sea and drowned, leaving her alone with a two-year-old son (three previous children had died young). Alongside her husband, Byron, and John Keats, Mary was one of the principal members of the second generation of Romanticism; unlike the three poets, who all died during the 1820s, she lived long enough to see the dawn of a new era, the Victorian Age. Still somewhat of a social outcast for her liaison with Shelley, she worked as a writer to support her father and son, and maintained connections to the artistic, literary and political circles of London until her death in 1851.http://www.history.com/
Valentine's Day History's Romantics
From poets and presidents to kings and courtesans, history is filled with great romances and timeless love stories. This Valentine's Day, discover some of history's most famous tales of love and loss.
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King Edward VIII |
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October 1936: Edward VIII and Mrs Wallis Simpson, during a cruise in the Adriatic, before the couple's romance became widely known. |
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Wallis, Duchess of Windsor; Prince Edward, Duke of Windsor (King Edward VIII) |
King Edward VIII
Edward, then Prince of Wales, was introduced to Wallis Simpson in 1931, when she was married to her second husband; they soon began a relationship that would rock Britain's most prominent institutions — Parliament, the monarchy and the Church of England — to their cores. Edward called Simpson, whom others criticized as a financially unstable social climber, "the perfect woman." Just months after being crowned king in January 1936, after the death of his father, George V, Edward proposed to Simpson, precipitating a huge scandal and prompting Britain's prime minister, Stanley Baldwin, to say he would resign if the marriage went ahead. Not wanting to push his country into an electoral crisis, but unwilling to give Simpson up, Edward made the decision to abdicate the throne. In a public radio address, he told the world of his love for Simpson, saying that "I have found it impossible to carry the heavy burden of responsibility and to discharge my duties as King as I would wish to do without the help and support of the woman I love." Married and given the titles of Duke and Duchess of Windsor, the couple lived in exile in France, where they became fixtures of cafe society. |
Giacomo Casanova |
Giacomo Casanova
The name "Casanova" has long since come to conjure up the romantic image of the prototypical libertine and seducer, thanks to the success of Giacomo Casanova's posthumously published 12-volume autobiography, Histoire de ma vie, which chronicled with vivid detail — as well as some exaggeration — his many sexual and romantic exploits in 18th-century Europe. Born in Venice in 1725 to actor parents, Casanova was expelled from a seminary for scandalous conduct and embarked on a varied career, including a stint working for a cardinal in Rome, as a violinist, and as a magician, while traveling all around the continent. Fleeing from creditors, he changed his name to Chevalier de Seingalt, under which he published a number of literary works, most importantly his autobiography. Casanova's celebration of pleasure seeking and much-professed love of women — he maintained that a woman's conversation was at least as captivating as her body — made him the leading champion of a movement towards sexual freedom, and the model for the famous Don Juan of literature. After working as a diplomat in Berlin, Russia, and Poland and a spy for the Venetian inquisitors, Casanova spent the final years of his life working on his autobiography in the library of a Bohemian count. He died in 1798. |
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Sappho
Much uncertainty surrounds the life story of the celebrated Greek lyric poet Sappho, a woman Plato called "the tenth Muse." Born around 610 B.C. on the island of Lesbos, now part of Greece, she was said to have been married to Cercylas, a wealthy man. Many legends have long existed about Sappho's life, including a prevalent one — now believed to be untrue — that she leaped into the sea to her death because of her unrequited love of a younger man, the sailor Phaon. It is not known how much work she published during her lifetime, but by the 8th or 9th century Sappho's known work was limited to quotations made by other authors. In the majority of her poems, Sappho wrote about love — and the accompanying emotions of hatred, anger and jealousy — among the members of her largely young and female circle. Sappho gave her female acolytes educational and religious instruction as part of the preparation for marriage; the group was dedicated to and inspired by Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love and beauty. Her focus on the relationships between women and girls has led many to assume that Sappho was a lesbian — a word derived from the island and the communities of women that lived there — but it is also true that the existence of strong emotions and attractions between members of the same sex was considered far more common and less taboo than in later years.
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